So, you’ve decided to change jobs and your new job isn’t within commuting distance. On top of starting a new position, you’re also about to have to relocate to a new place. Relocating for a job comes with a host of different considerations, and we’ve covered as many of them as possible in this compilation of 100 different blog posts. You’ll find everything you need to know about handling money matters, selling your home, dealing with family stress and more.
Relocating for work can end up costing you a pretty penny if it’s not done right. Before you take on the financial burden of relocating by yourself, talk with your employer about a possible relocation package. Not sure where to start? Read these 10 blogs, which cover negotiating a relocation package, saving money while moving and selling your house.
- Baby Center. Read tips on selling your house when you have kids in this post.
- Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate. There’s a certain amount of house prepping that goes into selling a home. This article will help you determine what color you should paint the interior if you’re trying to make a quick sale.
- MS Office Guru. Take a look at this salary comparison sheet to see if you will be making enough in your new job to warrant relocating your whole family.
- Graphs. Learn how to save money on moving expenses.
- AAT. Read this post to find tips on negotiating your benefits and salary so you know that you will be getting a better deal when you relocate.
- Idealist Careers. Once you get the job offer, use these tips to find out how to negotiate for other company perks.
- Realtor. If you’re in need of temporary housing, read through the helpful tips on this post to find out what to do.
- Cozby & Company. It’s important to make sure that the cost of living at the location you are considering is commensurate with the salary you are being offered. Use this cost of living calculator to figure it out.
- Kansas Treasurer. Keep in mind that if you relocate for work you can deduct your moving expenses. Take a look at this blog site to figure out what is deductible and what isn’t.
- Money-Zine. Before relocating educate yourself on all of the costs involved so that you can try to negotiate a relocation package with your new employer.
Moving ranks up there as one of the most stressful life events, right along with a birth and a death in the family. If you’re kids are less than pleased that you’ll be moving, try to find ways to get them excited about what they’re gaining in the move instead of what they’re losing. These 10 blog posts touch on the emotional stress of moving and guide you through helping your family members, even the four legged kind, deal with the upcoming move.
- Trulia. When your family is considering a move it’s important to find a home in a desirable school district. Read this article about finding the right school to ease the stress on the kids.
- The Adventures of Erica. It’s important to consider the stress moving places on your kids as well as the struggles of finding a good school to enroll them in when you relocate.
- Stream Articles. Hiring a realtor in the city you are relocating to can help reduce the stress of moving since she can help determine where the good schools are and what neighborhoods are close to where you will work.
- Women Speak. Read these tips for making the move less stressful for your family.
- Pawcurious. Pets are members of the family too and suffer from relocation stress just like humans. Read these tips on moving with a pet to help reduce that stress.
- Painter Mommy Dawn. It’s important to involve the children in the moving process and try to remain positive throughout.
- i Contemplate. Packing can be a long, stressful process, so you should start as soon as possible.
- Corporate Housing Associates. Discuss the move with your family to make sure that everyone is on board and prepared for the move.
- Beating Anger. Try to keep to a routine as much as you can and try not to miss things. Keeping things as normal as possible will help keep everyone’s temper in check.
- The Minimalist Mom. Reduce the amount of stuff you have by decluttering, donating or selling stuff you don’t need or want before the move.
Apps to Make Moving Simpler
If you don’t have a smartphone you may want to get one after you see the useful apps that can help you with your move! There are apps that will help you keep track of phone numbers, appointment times, moving checklists and even one that will help you estimate the size of the moving truck you’ll need to move your things. Check out the options in these 10 blogs.
- SLee and Topher. These two free apps will help you stay organized and stress-free during your move.
- Tech PT Blog. Find four apps on this post that will help you do everything from making lists to mapping out the best way to get to your new place.
- Tech Sling. Check out these four apps to make your next move smoother.
- Android Apps Review. These five apps work on Android devices and help you estimate what size moving truck you will need, provide an inspections list and even help you find rental property in your new location.
- NY International Shipping. Try out the Moving Guru, which gives you packing tips, checklists, videos, calendar reminders and more.
- Home Finder. These 10 apps can help you through the moving process from beginning to end. One app even prints bar codes so you can scan a box and know what’s in it without even opening it!
- Local Big Wig. This blog explores three apps that will help you move, including the Liberty Mutual Home Gallery App, which allows you to catalog your possessions.
- Information Space. The apps listed on this blog will let you check the weather, locate where to buy cheap gas, get directions to your new home and find the best places to eat along the way.
- Meathead Movers. This blog posts useful apps like Turbo Scan that help you scan in receipts and other documents that you will need when tax time comes.
- Sell Cell. Find a babysitter in your new city, locate a realtor and calculate a new mortgage payment based on the loan value and more using these apps.
Organizational Tips for the Move
When you’re preparing to move you’ll need to make lists, gather important documents, arrange for movers if you are using them and so much more. Needless to say, the process is stressful. One way to reduce that stress is to stay organized throughout the move. These 10 blog articles are full of ideas on how to stay organized.
- Organized Home. Create a notebook or binder to keep track of everything related to the move where you can keep important business cards, phone numbers, deadlines and other dates and times.
- Kuzak’s Closet. Label every box with the room it goes in and what’s in it to stay organized.
- The Allstate Blog. Use the printables on this blog to plan your move and stay organized while preparing for your move.
- Walsh Moving and Storage. Start purging the items you don’t need before you pack.
- First Team. Make a To Do list for the family so everyone knows what needs to be done.
- Moving Gal. Try to sort and pack as much stuff as you can early on so that you don’t have as much to do when the move gets close.
- Real Simple. Create a binder that will hold everything from the kids’ school records to an inventory of all of the items you are going to move.
- Relocate. Pack one room at a time and use special labels or numbers for each box so that you know what’s in the boxes and where they go.
- Unclutterer. Color-code your boxes so that you know where each one goes and what they contain.
- Org Junkie. Create a packing schedule to streamline the process.
Finding Doctors in Your New City
Finding a doctor in your new city may sound like something that you can do after you arrive, but if you have any medical conditions you may want to handle this before you leave. Make sure you get a copy of your medical records to take to your new doctor. Your current doctor may even be able to recommend someone in your new city. These 10 sites can help you narrow down your search for doctors, pediatricians, dentists, eye doctors and specialists by area.
- Find Good Movers. Let your doctors know that you will be moving and see if they can give you a recommendation for a doctor in your new area.
- Mountain Star Medical Group. Use this list of questions when interviewing doctors in your new location.
- Activebeat. Here you’ll find a list of things to consider when deciding on a pediatrician in your new city.
- eHealth Insurance. Ask yourself these questions before you pick a new pediatrician.
- New York. Read this interview with a local pediatrician that suggests polling a dozen or so people at your local park to find where they take their kids.
- The Condition Health Blog. This article will give you some ideas on how to find a pediatric dentist in your community.
- Christian Conservative Politics. According to this article, you can tell a lot about a dentist just by looking around the waiting room. Learn what to look for and what to ask when trying to find a new dentist.
- Moving Guru. Learn how to find a new doctor for your family by reading the tips given in this article.
- American Optometric Association. Enter in your location on this site to pull up a list of possible eye doctors in your new city.
- Healthgrades. If you are in need of a specialist, you can compile a list of doctors by specialty and then by location using this site.
Tips for Selling Your Home
Selling your house is no small feat, and can ruffle even the calmest of people. You will need to look at your home with fresh eyes before putting it on the market to locate any repairs or changes you need to make. You may even want to consult a home stager if you will not be able to leave some furniture in the home to help sell it. These 10 blogs share tips for getting your home ready for a quick sale.
- Search Philly Listing. Learn some Feng Shui skills for selling your home quickly and simply by reading this article.
- Seattle Pi. Price your house lower than the appraised value to capture the attention of buyers and to potentially start a bidding war that drives the price higher.
- BS Realty. Fix things that you’ve been putting off doing, because prospective buyers will notice everything.
- Ebby Blog. Make sure the house is well lit, especially in the winter.
- HGTV Blog. You can sell your house on your own if you want, but it’s going to take some work, as explained on this post.
- Barton-Wyatt Blog. Hide a diffuser or two around the home so that your home smells fresh.
- Decorology. Use trends that fit the style of your house and try not to make your house into something that it’s not.
- Zillow. You may benefit from using a stager when selling your home. Look through the different levels of help that a stager can offer in this article.
- Realty Times. Take a look at your curtains and see if they need replaced. According to this article, this is a big part of staging your home for a quick sale.
- Mickey Knows Philly. Several things will help stage your home properly, but color is key. Neutral colors are something that everyone can live with, unlike bright colors that may be owner specific.
Finding a New School
If you have school-aged children you’ll need to locate a good school district to enroll them. Do your research ahead of time to help narrow down the area you want to live in. Many times you have more than one option when it comes to schools, and now your child can even attend school online at home. Read these 10 articles to educate yourself on what you should be looking for in a new school.
- National Center for Education Statistics. You can use this site to learn more about potential schools in the area.
- For Sale by Owner. When considering a school you will want to take a tour of the school and talk to other parents if you can.
- School Family. You will never find a school exactly like the one your kids have been attending, but you can try to find one that excels in the areas that your child is interested in.
- Great Schools. This site will allow you to pull up almost any school, from elementary to high school, and read the reviews and check the ratings.
- My Moving Reviews. Check out this story to learn whether it’s better for your kids to move during the summer or during the school year.
- Huffington Post. You may want to read some books on starting a new school to your kids before the time comes to actually start school.
- Time U.S. Go beyond test scores or ratings when you are looking at a school by looking at the classes offered and talking to your neighbors.
- Move. Work with your realtor to learn about various neighborhood schools to find a school that fits your child’s needs.
- Belly Belly. Make sure that you know what you are looking for when looking at potential schools.
- Wright’s Law. Check out the list of links on this post to help research schools in the area you plan on moving.
Making a Good Impression at You New Job
Making a positive first impression with your new employer is crucial, and people can form an opinion about you in less than 30 seconds. Because of this, you want to make sure you arrive early, dress professionally and look people in the eye when you meet them. For more tips on putting your best foot forward in your new position, read through these 10 blogs.
- Glass Door. Make sure that you arrive at work on time so your boss knows he can count on you to get your work done.
- Finances Online. Get to know the people that you will be working with and be willing to work overtime if the boss needs you to.
- Penny Davenport. Don’t talk a great deal when you first start your job; instead, listen to the stories other people tell.
- Headhunt. Use whatever tricks you can to remember the names of your coworkers to make a positive first impression.
- NG Careers. To make a positive first impression, remember your manners above all else.
- Apploi Observer. Learn how to interpret what your boss wants and needs from you.
- Women’s Health Mag. Prepare things to talk about so that when you are mingling with others you can add to the conversation.
- LexisNexis. Always dress appropriately and err on the side of dressing too formally as opposed to too casually.
- Business Insider. Keep your jewelry to a minimum so that it doesn’t become a distraction during conversations or meetings.
- Jenn’s Blah Blah Blog. Make eye contact and smile when you meet people to appear open and confident. This can leave them with a positive impression of you.
Organization Tips for the New House
Once you have closed on your new home and the movers are unloading your belongings you will want to have organizational tools in place. Evaluate the storage you have in your new home and set things aside to be donated as you unpack. Keep in mind that you don’t want the new place to be cluttered, so make sure that you have appropriate boxes and baskets to give everything a home. For more organizational tips, check out these 10 blogs.
- For Rent. Utilize baskets wherever you need to camouflage storage.
- Goodbye House Hello Home. Use these pointers to organize the pantry in your new home so that you can find what you want when you want it.
- Making a Home and Family. Make a command center where you can keep important papers, calendars of events and activities and more.
- Organize Your Stuff Now. Kids’ rooms can be some of the toughest to organize, so take some tips from this blogger about using vertical storage in closets where you can.
- J@ Monkey. Tons of ideas can be found in this blog post, from setting up organization under the kitchen sink to utilizing the space on the back of doors.
- Organized by Kelley. Toy clutter can take over the house if you don’t make sure that everything has its own place.
- First Home Love Life. Nearly every home needs to have a way to organize sheets, towels, extra toiletries and more. Check out the linen closet ideas on this blog post.
- Horizon Goodwill. By bringing fewer items into your new home you will be able to be better organized.
- All You. If you didn’t purge unwanted items before you moved, now is the time. Only put away items that you will use.
- Tips Discover. The kitchen is the heart of the home, so take the time to make it organized.
Activities for Kids on Car Trip to New Home
Whether you’re moving a few hours away or across the country, you’ll probably need some activities to keep the kids busy on the road. Pack some fun games and activities for the kids to do. You may want to start out by making a trip to the dollar store. Metal cookie sheets provide a firm surface for the kids to color on, play with magnets on, play games on and more. In these 10 blogs you can read all about different activities to do in the car.
- Glue Sticks. Create a travel binder that contains printable sheets for the license plate game, road trip bingo, coloring pages and much more.
- Eighteen 25. Take some plastic boxes and fill them up with snacks and activities to do in the car.
- Thrive. Make some travel sized board games that can be played on the road using magnets for playing pieces, as shown in this blog.
- We Got Kidz. You can create a magnet-friendly chalkboard using chalkboard paint and a cookie sheet to keep the kids busy in the back seat.
- Make It Blog. Play the game “Would you rather?” by using the printable questions on this blog.
- Babalisme. Print and cut out these paper dolls and clothes for a quiet activity that your kids can do in the car. You can even use magnetic sheets to put them on a cookie sheet so they don’t fall on the floor.
- Classroom Jr. Bring along some Mad Libs and a pen so the whole family can get in on the story making while practicing parts of speech.
- The Activity Mom. Check out the learning ideas for toddlers on this blog. You can work on colors, animal sounds, weather and transportation.
- Kids’ Activities Blog. Make a traveling white board for the kids using an old CD case, some paper, a dry erase marker and a cloth to clean it.
- Make and Takes. You’ll find several simple ideas for travelling fun on this blog, like pipe cleaners, sticky notes, clear tape, yarn and more. Put these things in a clear bag and let the kids get creative.
The world of nannying and caregiving, while certainly a professional one, is a very personal industry that is based on enormous trust. Parents are handing over the most precious things in their world to the care of another person, while caregivers are injecting themselves into another family’s world. As a matter of common sense, security would dictate the nanny should be just as diligent in ensuring her own safety and wellbeing in this new environment by checking references, but it can often feel awkward to make that request.
Here are some tips on why you should get the goods on your prospective employers and how to do so:
You Show Me Yours
To feel you are not equally entitled to checking references of homes you will be entering for potential employment is simply wrong-thinking. If you attempt to make your request before correcting that perspective in your own mind, it will likely come out as unsure and with an energy that may leave a less than favorable overall impression of your competence. You are a professional entering a private residence of strangers. You are about to invest your own time and energy into committing to this position, perhaps turning down other opportunities or at some cost to yourself (whether personal or financial). You need to respect your own value as a professional.
Practice making the request until it sounds as natural, matter-of-fact and confident as the rest of your interview. Do so in a mirror and note your tone of voice and body language. Wipe any notes of apology from your voice, as that alone can give a sense that what you are asking for is unusual or an imposition. An easy segue is to proceed through the interview as normal and at the end, when the prospective employer sums up with “This all sounds great, I just need your references and we can move forward to the next level”, respond with, “Of course, and if you have the contact info or references from your previous nannies that would be great.” If they express any surprise or discomfort, simply explain that getting a handle on how things run makes you a more prepared and knowledgeable nanny.
Put It in Writing
If you just can’t get comfortable with the direct in-person request, create a helpful form for prospective parents to list their children’s needs and what they are looking for from you, then end the form with a “Previous Nanny Contacts and References” section. If they balk at your request, consider it a red flag or use it to bolster yourself to start a conversation about why the previous caregiver moved on and who made that decision. The nanny may have left the industry due to personal reasons (starting a family, getting married, returning to college to complete her education, etc.) or because she needed to relocate. They might have employed an au pair whose term and visa had expired. Perhaps there was just a personality conflict or the nanny decided to take on another engagement for a higher salary or with benefits. There is also a chance that there might have been payment issues or something more serious that led to her departure. If they are uncomfortable sharing, just explain that you find it’s helpful to understand the children’s perspective and what you can do to make the relationship as successful as possible.
Work with an Agency
Perhaps you are a capable and talented caregiver and nanny, but find yourself extremely uncomfortable with the idea of working out the details of your employment – whether it be negotiating pay or duties, or asking and checking references of the family’s past household employees. In order to protect yourself and ensure you are not being taken advantage of or putting yourself in an unpleasant situation that will be sticky to get out of, it may be worth it to consider an agency that will complete these tasks for you and vet out prospective families in advance.Posted in Nanny Websites | Comments Off on Asking Parents for References April 23, 2014
Nannying a toddler is a unique experience; these mini-people trapped in tiny bodies can be a challenge! However, with the tips from these resource sites, you can navigate the tricky waters of toddlerhood with a smile:
Mayo Clinic: This respected medical site gives the lowdown on water and seasonal safety issues to monitor, offers tips on managing toddler behavior and shares a host of health-related advice articles for those spending their time with the short set.
Honest Toddler: This site is pure fun, and the posts? So, so true. If you had a long day with the little one in your life, come here for a well-earned smile (or guffaw) and some insight into the inner-workings of the toddler mind. Just be aware, dipping into this site narrated by a hilarious and often single-minded toddler can be just as distracting as the real thing.
Green Child: If your charge’s family follows a strict green or organic lifestyle and the finer points of natural vs organic vs vegan escape you, this site will offer info and ideas on toddler-friendly things to do and foods to prepare that fit within the family philosophy.
Parenting: This recognized parenting bible has a wealth of practical information nannies can use to make their lives with toddlers easier, from turning your picky eater into a foodie to managing sibling rivalry to toddler development issues.
ToddlerToddler: This toddler activity site offers an entire section on Rainy Day activities that can keep you sane when there’s no park or outside options for running off all that toddler energy. Another section devoted to Young Toddlers is ideal for little ones with shorter attention spans or who struggle with motor skills.
National Geographic Little Kids: Need distraction and a surefire way to avoid your little charge handling all the tempting, germ-laden toys at the doctor’s office while you wait for an appointment? This site offers cute animal pictures and videos with interesting facts broken down into toddler-size bites. Even anti-TV parents won’t find issue with this nature-loving site! An added bonus? Older siblings will like the zoological games on the main Kids’ site.
Toddler Approved: If you’re striking out with your usual arsenal of fun toddler activities but don’t want to go through the expense and production of heading out for supplies, this site is filled with arts, crafts, games and things to do with everyday items you can find around your family’s house.
Babble: This site, now courtesy of Disney, offers articles and essays on every sort of lifestyle issue you can imagine and how it relates to life with kids. This particularly interesting piece focuses on interview questions for nannies of toddlers, which can be enlightening and a great way for those seeking new positions to prepare for interviews.
Wholesome Toddler Food: This offshoot of the popular “Wholesome Baby Food” site breaks down toddler nutritional needs and offers recipes and ideas for snacks and meals that will actually get eaten instead of casually tossed under the table.
Parents: This well-known magazine site offers an informative Q&A on toddler sleep issues that can be helpful for nannies trying to set up a nap schedule. Another Toddler Sleep Makeover piece on the site offers slumber advice based on the toddler’s personality.Posted in Nanny Websites | Comments Off on Top 10 Resource Websites for Nannies of Toddlers April 16, 2014
Learning new things doesn’t have to be a chore; in fact, by employing the right tactics your kids can actually have quite a bit of fun while they learn. Take a look at these 100 websites that are filled with games specifically designed to help your child enjoy learning, no matter what age he is.
Developmentally, preschoolers are learning shapes, colors, letters, letter sounds and simple math. The 25 sites listed here will make it fun for your child to learn and practice these concepts.
- Starfall. Using games, pictures and verbal clues, your child can learn the alphabet, what sound each letter makes and how to read.
- PBS Kids. Games based on your child’s favorite PBS cartoon are available on this site and will help your child learn to read.
- Fisher Price. Your child can learn shapes, letters, colors, numbers and more with the entertaining games found here.
- Fun Brain. This site is full of math games, reading games and games that are just for fun.
- Cookie. Creative ways to learn colors, numbers, letters and more are included to keep your kids learning and laughing.
- Scholastic. Letter matching, sound matching and beginner reading are all available on this trusted site.
- Disney Junior. These entertaining games feature some of your child’s favorite cartoon characters, and he won’t even realize that he’s learning to use strategy and problem solving while playing them.
- Sheppard Software. This creative website contains games that will teach your child about various types of animals and where they live.
- Jayzee Bear. Your child can work on memory skills or learn letters and numbers by playing one of the many games offered here.
- Nick Jr. Encourage your child to play these games to learn how to use the mouse on the computer and other developmentally important skills.
- Poisson Rouge. Let your child learn by exploring the rooms of the castle and clicking on various items to determine what each item is.
- Kneebouncers. Number recognition, colors, shapes and even sight words are available for young learners. Try this site for free for the first month.
- Learning Games for Kids. Encourage your child to be creative and learn more about colors by playing the color mixing game.
- Sprout Online. Play the search and find game throughout carrot castle and have the kids work on abstract thinking and shape recognition.
- A Kid’s Heart. Color sorting and shape work can be done on this website.
- Meddy Bemps. Your child can work on spacial awareness, matching and more with the help of this site.
- Bob the Builder. Children can learn about construction equipment and virtually build projects with Bob and the other machines.
- Kids Psych. This site has learning games that are appropriate for kids ages 1 to 9.
- NGA. Let the kids learn about art and explore making their own abstract artwork online using this activity on National Gallery of Art.
- Seusseville. Young children can learn cause and effect by playing the balancing game or one of the other entertaining games on this site.
- Webkinz. The game on this site teaches typing, spelling, color matching and more.
- Jumpstart. Stories can be read aloud while allowing the child to follow along with the words to introduce the concept of reading left to right.
- Up to Ten. Work on coordination, puzzles and spotting differences with this online game.
- Sesame Street. Let your child work on virtual life skills, colors, matching and much more on this preschool site.
- CBeebies. Your child can watch animated stories starring letter blocks and learn what sound each letter makes and how letters can be combined to make words.
Letters, sight words, simple science and math concepts, and writing are all introduced when children enter kindergarten. To help reinforce those concepts, check out the games on these 25 sites.
- Encyclopedia Interactica. Let your child learn by exploring various instruments, math facts and more when he clicks through the tiles on this site.
- Enchanted Learning. This site provides sheets for practicing writing letters along with other picture worksheets.
- Switcheroo Zoo. Let your child take a tour of the zoo and create his own imaginative animals by combining the head of one animal with the tail and legs of others.
- Kinderweb. Your child can learn how to tell time, match colors and work with letters on this useful site.
- Primary Games. Counting games and sorting games for your kindergartner are available here.
- BBC. Encourage your early reader to listen and sound out words by playing the blender game.
- Learning Planet. Using this site, your child can put letters in order, work on number recognition and much more.
- Kindersite. Your child can take the baby animals off of a train and put them in their correct spot by matching up lower case letters to their upper case partners.
- I Know That. Kids can learn skip counting, addition and subtraction and much more on this useful website.
- British Council. Play games with upper and lower case letters to become familiar with the letters quickly.
- Professor Garfield. Collect eggs by matching up starting sounds using pictures. This game works well for kids who are not yet reading.
- ICT Games. Early readers can work on starting sounds by playing this conveyor belt game.
- Get Ready to Read. By playing along with a funny character your child can work on rhyming, beginning sounds and reading.
- Between the Lions. Early readers can work on matching words and pictures by using verbal cues.
- Read Think Write. Games are available to help your child work on beginning sounds and short and long vowel sounds.
- Prongo. Beginning math problems that increase in difficulty are available on this baseball game.
- The Kidz Page. Younger children can work on matching shapes, puzzles and more.
- Literacy Center. Your child can work on upper and lower case letter recognition, number recognition and shapes here.
- Knowledge Adventure. Learn to manipulate the keys on the keyboard to play this game.
- Turtle Diary. You’ll find a unique approach to subtraction on this site.
- Pauly’s Playhouse. Practice memory and colors by playing Kitty Quartet or one of the many other games on this site.
- ABC. Match picture halves to complete the scene and work on basic math concepts.
- Mr. Nussbaum. Your kindergartener can learn how to identify money, order numbers and figure out measurements on this site, along with much more.
- ABC Mouse. Try a free trial for 30 days on this online curriculum for preschool and kindergarten.
- Brain Pop Jr. Encourage your child to make new words by changing just the first letter of a word in the Chain game.
There’s a lot of change and growth in elementary school, and kids begin to learn increasingly difficult subjects. These 25 sites cover the lessons learned throughout the elementary years.
- Wonderopolis. Challenge your child to think scientifically when trying to answer some of the questions on this website.
- ABC Ya. This site has games for kindergarten through 5th grade, so your child can use it for years.
- Highlights Kids. Unscramble letters to make words, search pictures to find differences and read stories on this clever site.
- Fun Brain. Try out the math games on this site to make learning your child’s math facts a little more fun.
- Qubo. Practice word recognition while doing timed word searches and play a variety of other learning games.
- TVO Kids. Instead of just telling your child about Internet safety, let him interact with Kid Cursor to learn about the web and how to stay safe online.
- Try Science. Encourage your child to try some of these science experiments online, then do them offline to see how they work in real life.
- Whyville. Create your own power plant and complete activities to make virtual money so you can continue to build the power plant with this game.
- E-Learning for Kids. This site covers everything from math games to English language skills.
- Disney Playdom. Travel through time and find the items that don’t belong in that time frame to prevent problems in history.
- Spelling City. This spelling and vocabulary game website can help your child work on words from their own school by entering them into the game.
- Fuel the Brain. Your elementary student can practice math and literacy concepts on this site.
- Free Rice. Vocabulary practice for your child for future test taking and literacy is entertaining with the help of Free Rice.
- Smarty Games. Your student can brush up on his money skills, complete a dot-to-dot, find his way through a maze and work on his memory on this site.
- KWarp. If your child needs some practice on parts of speech, this may be a fun site for him.
- Spell Zone. Check out the free trial available on this spelling site.
- A Plus Math. If you want to start going over money with your elementary student, the flash cards on this site are perfect to practice with.
- Cool Cosmos. Learn about animals in a new way by checking out infrared pictures of them.
- National Aquarium. If you can’t go to the aquarium in person, take a virtual tour through it using this website instead.
- Mission US. Discover more about American history by playing For Crown or Colony?
- iCivics. Play a game where you can learn about passing laws, branches of government and much more.
- Math-Play. Practice your math in order to move forward in your soccer game.
- Game Classroom. This cube game will give your child an advantage when it comes to test taking because it’s practices the visualization of 3D objects.
- Light Up Your Brain. If you think your child has an extensive vocabulary, have him try this challenging game.
- Multiplication. Work on math facts while playing this fishy pet store game online. Many other games are available too.
The 25 sites on this list are geared to help your middle schooler through the more advanced, thought-provoking subjects.
- Kids National Geographic. Learn about world geography and animals on this site.
- Kiddy House. Kids can go online and learn about reptiles and amphibians in detail here.
- Dance Mat Typing. The more kids use the computer the better they will get with using a keyboard. This site will help improve typing skills.
- Ixl. Your middle schooler can practice math skills from 6th grade math all the way to Algebra and Geometry.
- Cool Math. Advanced students can practice math problems all the way up to calculus here.
- Make Me a Genius. Watch videos on global warming, learn about the nervous system, and cover other scientific topics here.
- How Stuff Works. If your middle schooler loves to learn how things work, this is the site for him.
- Pottermore. Delve deeper into the Harry Potter series and read more about Harry Potter while improving literary analysis skills.
- Learn 4 Good. Using some trial and error and logic you can switch the train track tiles around to get the train through the maze without causing it to derail.
- Math Chimp. Play Hungry Puppies to work on decimals or figure out the variable and shoot for points on Hoop Shot.
- 50 States. Learn and practice the states and their capitals by using the tools on this site.
- The Great Martini Company. Get some practice on your algebraic equations here.
- Math Playground. Are word-problems giving you trouble? Try some pressure-free practice on this website.
- Math Cats. This site has more word-problem practice, as well as funny pictures that will make you laugh while you are trying to solve the problems.
- Go Geometry. Practice geometry here with colorful pictures and complete explanations.
- Nobel Prize. You don’t have to be a Nobel Prize winner to play the blood typing game on this unique site.
- Power My Learning. Work on your 8th grade grammar or study the stars and planets on this educational site.
- Kongregate. This game teaches older students cause and effect, which allows them to think more creatively when solving problems.
- Physics Games. Learn physics concepts by playing these games of balance and bridge building.
- Space Place NASA. Put your creativity to work and figure out how to make clean energy or build a space station in these games.
- TV 411. Learn how using prefixes can change words with these games.
- Academics. Race against other kids from around the country by answering algebraic equations and making your otter swim faster than the others.
- A Plus Gamer. Try some logic problems or work on your math and English by playing these games.
- Neo K12. Quiz games, puzzles and funny videos will make learning fun for Science, History, Math, English and Geography.
- Math Snacks. This site was developed by educators to present math concepts in an entertaining and different way to entice those students that don’t really like math.
Parenting siblings can be a tricky endeavor, and nannying them can be even more difficult. You are likely walking into a dynamic that has long been established, so tweaking behaviors and fostering friendships between siblings to encourage harmony might take a little more effort.
In Dr. Bill Sears’ 20 Tips to Stop Quibbling Siblings and Promote Sibling Harmony, the world renowned pediatrician, author of over 30 childcare books and father of eight (two of whom grew up to join a medical practice together!), shares his survival skills for creating a peaceful home.
We share how some of those tips can translate into great advice for nannies and caretakers:
(Don’t) Let Them Fight it Out
The old school of thought was to let kids duke it out, believing they’d eventually get over whatever problems they had without interference. It was thought that somehow floundering through conflicts and coming out on the other side, no matter how bad it escalated, was an important life lesson. Limitless fighting can have negative long-term effects, though – and drive you insane in the short-term!
“If children are in danger of hurting someone or damaging property, stop the fight. Siblings who are allowed to fight as kids are more likely to fight as adults. For small tiffs, such as toy squabbles, teach children to handle it themselves. Simply state the consequences and what you expect, ‘I’ll be back in one minute. If you kids haven’t learned how to share the toy or work it out, the toy goes in the garage,’” offers Dr. Sears. “You can either time-out the toy or time-out the kids. You’re giving them two messages: you expect them to be able to work it out themselves, but you’re giving them the unequivocal consequences that if they don’t, you will.”
The New Kid on the Block
Toddlers and preschoolers will likely see you as their favorite toy, and serious jealousy and ill feelings can form when they sense you are (by necessity) investing more time in their new little brother or sister.
“We would wear our infant in a baby sling, which gave us two free hands to play a game with the older one,” says Dr. Sears. “While feeding baby, we would read a book to the sibling, or just have cuddle time. As baby gets older, place him in an infant seat or on a blanket on the floor to watch you play one-on-one with her big brother or sister. This entertains two kids with one [nanny].”
Sibling Squabbling vs. Sibling Abuse
A certain amount of low level bickering is bound to pop up now and then. Disagreements over toys, who took the last fruit leather and whose turn it is to help clear the table are pretty inevitable and working them out together is a natural part of growing up. But when these squabbles turn mean-spirited, escalate to the physical, or tend to be one-sided in a consistent manner – a more worrisome bullying pattern might be forming.
It could be one child who is older, who uses that power and experience to undercut a younger sibling emotionally or uses their physical inequality to force them to concede. It could just be a matter of one child (regardless of age) having a stronger personality, who tends to stampede over the more passive brother or sister. Regardless, when you recognize the beginnings of sibling abuse, it must be nipped in the bud – both to spare the self esteem and confidence of the weaker child and also your relationship and position of authority with both of the children. Bad habits are hard to break.
“Be watchful for aggressor/victim roles,” says Dr. Sears. “Your job is to protect [the] children, even from one another. How siblings behave toward one another is their first social lesson in how to behave in a group. Children need you to monitor put-downs. If you don’t, you’re not doing your job. By remaining silent, the victim concludes you’re siding with the victimizer.”
Make New Friends
Fostering friendships between siblings to cut back on the battles means creating a sense of empathy and compassion. This can be difficult when you enter the picture to two “sworn enemies”. Let them take on roles as teacher, comforter, entertainer or assistant to the doctor (you) in times of bumps and scrapes to help them see their sibling in a new light. Assign them small tasks to do cooperatively, and offer a joint reward at the end.
Know Your Limits
As a nanny coming into a home, you might be walking into a situation where the kids were allowed to beat on each other, call each other names, throw toys at each other and scream or slam doors during fights. While you can’t change the rules of the house, you don’t have to tolerate that type of behavior when they’re under your watch either.
Children understand there are different modes they must abide by in life and different rules and regulations that must be followed or there are consequences to be faced. They don’t run around the classroom yelling, interrupt the teacher when she’s teaching or steal treats from kids at the lunch table when they’re not looking (hopefully), and they can be taught that they must abide by your rules when in your presence – and that those rules might be different than what their parents allow. You are the person in authority and clearly laying out your limits or expectations and being consistent with the consequences will reap a speedy turnaround. Be prepared, though; this could take a little education in a formerly-free-for-all household.
“Offer calm verbal reminders, such as ‘That’s a put-down,’ as one sibling belittles the other. Or, issue a look that says ‘don’t even think about it!’ [when boundary lines are being threatened],” suggests Dr. Sears. “Head off fights at the first squabble, before they get out of hand. In our family, we have set certain ‘maximum allowable limits’, which are behaviors that we insist upon to like living with our children, and the children are taught to respect these.”Posted in Nanny Websites | Comments Off on How to Prevent Siblings from Fighting February 17, 2014
With each passing year, telecommuting – also known as working from home – is becoming more common. According to Forbes, one in five people now work from home at least part-time. That’s 30 million people working from home, with at least three million working solely from home. While working from home has its perks, it can also have its pitfalls. These 100 blogs are stocked with tips work-at-home moms can use to maximize on the benefits of working from home and avoid the drawbacks, helping you lead a happy, balanced life.
Get the Help You Need
Moms who work from home full-time probably are going to need some help on occasion. Hiring a nanny or babysitter to watch the kids can free up your time and allow you to get more done. Check out these 10 articles to find options for getting help in the areas you need it most.
- Hire a nanny. Morningside Nannies explains both the benefits and drawbacks to hiring a nanny when you work from home.
- Get a cleaning service. Superpages lists 10 reasons you might want to hire professionals to clean your home.
- Get someone to help with administrative duties. EA Help examines how a virtual administrative assistant can aid you throughout the day.
- Look into hiring a mother’s helper. If you don’t want or need full-time childcare, She Knows suggests hiring a part-time mother’s helper to entertain the kids while you work.
- Choose a daycare that allows you to set your own hours. Planet Kids is a drop-in or flexible schedule daycare that works with parents who work unusual hours.
- Find a flexible childcare option. Working Mother explains the various ways that work-at-home moms can work around their kids, such as utilizing fitness club daycares, attending story time at the library and getting their spouse to help once he’s home.
- Utilize before and after school childcare through the school. Many schools offer childcare before and after school to accommodate regular office hours, says Childtime.
- Set up a babysitting co-op with other moms. Baby Center explains how to set up a babysitting co-op and how it can work.
- Use a grocery delivery service. Check with your local grocery stores or use a nationwide company like Schwan’s to order and receive food at your home so that you can save time shopping.
- Sign up for a meal service a few nights a week. The great thing about meal services like Family Chef is that they can often cater to dietary restrictions.
Time management is a crucial component of working from home. Use these 10 tricks to help you effectively manage your time while you work.
- Eliminate time wasters. Momcomm reviews common time wasters.
- Create routines for your family life. Work at Home Moms suggests building routines into your daily life for both your family and your work.
- Learn to say no. Real Simple points out the necessity of saying “no” sometimes.
- Stay focused on your tasks. WAHM explains different ways people self-sabotage themselves when working from home.
- Set up a work schedule. Kids aren’t the only ones who need structure; Growing a Family says that grown-ups do too.
- Keep track of your deadlines. Yahoo Voices advises using a calendar or other device to keep track of deadlines.
- Utilize a timer. Circle of Moms points out that using a timer can keep you focused and let kids know when you will be available.
- Set aside a chunk of time for you. The Mogul Mom urges work-at-home moms to take time to recharge.
- Find your peak time. Babble explains that you need to figure out when you are at your best and take advantage of that time to do most of your work.
- Create a task list and prioritize tasks. Examiner recommends starting the day with a list of tasks need to get completed and then prioritizing them so that you can work on those items first.
Finding a work/life balance is no easy feat, but it is possible to accomplish. To learn how to establish a work/life balance, read these 10 articles.
- Don’t feel guilty. Many working moms feel guilty about not spending more time with their family, but this mindset isn’t healthy, says Parents.
- Spend quality time with your family. Modern Mom shares that it’s not the amount of time that you spend with your family, but the quality of the time you do spend with them.
- Know what you want to accomplish before you start. Inc. discusses different ways to find balance between work and home.
- Look ahead before you take on a job to determine its flexibility. Miami Herald advises knowing your life goals before choosing a career to determine if that career will help you achieve those goals.
- Know what you want. If you want to work from home full-time, Flex Jobs recommends talking to your boss and explaining a well thought out plan for you to do just that.
- Figure out who you are. Big City Moms explains that some people need to work because that’s who they are while others need to stay home.
- Try to exercise regularly. People who exercise tend to be happier with both their life and their work, shares Harvard Business Review, because it makes them feel stronger and more capable.
- Taking time off to have a family won’t kill your career. Science Moms writes about high powered women who have found balance between having a family and working from home.
- Manage others’ expectations. Generation Y advises working the hours you are able to and letting others know that you have a family and are not always on call.
- Put your kids to bed early. American Psychology Association explains that once the kids go to bed you can get the sleep you need to function fully.
Make Ahead Meals
Whether you work from home or not, having meal plans you can make ahead of time can be a lifesaver. These 10 sites will provide you with ideas and recipes for meals that can be pre-made and frozen so that you can just pop dinner in the oven and go back to work.
- Overnight beef bourguignon recipe. Momeo Magazine has just the recipe for busy working moms.
- Use your lunch hour to work ahead on dinners. Work at Home Dinner Guide explains how to cook chicken breasts and a beef steak for future meals and how to throw together some mixes for a breadmaker.
- Make breakfast ahead of time to streamline the morning routine. Make Ahead Meals for Busy Moms shares three recipes that can be pre-made so the kids can grab breakfast themselves.
- Use these recipes to get a jump on dinners for the week. Cooking Light details several recipes that can be made ahead and reheated on the night you need it.
- On the weekend put some dinners in the freezer. Fitness Magazine encourages busy people to avoid eating out by freezing dinners ahead.
- Prepare a month’s worth of meals in a day. Everyday Rachael Ray gives you tips and recipes to make 20 different meals.
- Make soup when you’re in a time crunch. Try this Minestrone soup recipe from Make Ahead Meals and freeze it for future meals.
- Buy meat in bulk when it’s on sale. My Recipes explains the benefit of buying your favorite meats when they’re on sale so you can freeze them and use them for later meals.
- Make a meatloaf to freeze for later. Food provides tons of recipes that are perfect for once a month cooking.
- Prepare this casserole recipe before you go to bed. This Overnight Meatball Casserole recipe from Busy Cooks sits in the fridge over night or all day and is ready to cook that night.
Working from home doesn’t automatically mean you suddenly have the time to clean house all day. In fact, sometimes you may find you have even less time to clean. Use these 10 time-saving cleaning tips to keep the house clean with minimal effort and time.
- Assign tasks to all members of the family. Jennifer P. Williams explains the benefits of having everyone pitch in around the house to keep it clean.
- Work your way around a room clockwise. Woman’s Day shares how cleaning a room clockwise can help you get more done.
- Clean as you go. Sometimes it’s easier said than done, but Just Mommies recommends putting things away as soon as you’re done using them.
- Break cleaning tasks down daily. Liberating Working Moms talks about how she tackles a few cleaning tasks every day to keep the house clean.
- Create a cleaning caddy. My Sweet Nest Blog explains how to put together a cleaning caddy to save time while cleaning.
- Multi-task your chores. According to Skinny Mom, you should find ways to clean as you go about your typical daily tasks.
- Work in 15-min periods of time. Popsugar says that breaking up cleaning into smaller chunks helps it not seem so bad.
- Make sure everything has a place. Advice with Dr. Julia recommends putting away items right after using them.
- Take advantage of every spare minute. The Happiest Home encourages you to clean during your spare time, such as when you’re waiting for water to boil or for your coffee to brew.
- Break tasks up into 5-minute chunks. The Confident Mom lists tons of chores that you can do 5-minutes at a time.
Define and Organize Your Workspace
While you may have the flexibility to work wherever you want when you work from home, it can be more beneficial to set up a designated work space. These 10 sites will help you create a defined work space.
- Corral all your small desk items into a handy desk organizer. The Container Store shows some ways you can keep your desk clutter-free.
- Determine how you want your office to function. Organized Impressions explains that you need to decide who is going to use your office, how often you will use the space and what will you be doing.
- Try to make your office fit your tastes. Steve Pavlina stresses the importance of feeling good in your office space so that you can be happier and more productive.
- Reduce paper clutter. Offices are often riddled with stacks of paper; Monster explains how to reduce this clutter.
- Label everything in your office. Startup Nation suggests labeling cords, creating files for pending papers and filing most of the stuff in your office.
- Decide where your workspace will be. Whether you have a dedicated room, a desk in a corner or a laptop in the dining room, you need to define your space, advises Unclutterer.
- Organize your books onto shelves. House Beautiful shares a picture of a home office that doubles as a library with floor-to-ceiling book shelves.
- Utilize an in-basket. The Couch Manager explains how an in-basket can keep paperwork organized.
- Figure out the work flow and organize around that. How Stuff Works recommends looking at how your work comes in, how you handle it and how it goes out again to determine flow.
- Only keep things on your desk that you use daily. Home Storage Solutions takes you step-by-step through organizing your home office.
Working from home can give others the false impression that you are available 24/7. While you may have a little more flexibility than office-bound employees, you also still have a job to do and can’t be running around taking care of things for everyone else simply because you’re home. Learn how to set boundaries with the help of these 10 blogs.
- Set up an online calendar so your co-workers know when you are working. Working Mother says there is no reason to take on more tasks just because you are working from home, and having an online calendar can help.
- Get a dedicated business phone line. Freelance Folder explains the importance of keeping your private life separate from your professional one.
- Create a set of three cards that alert your family to your availability. Women Powering Business suggests putting a green card up when people can walk in, a yellow card when visitors need to knock and wait for an answer and a red one when you can’t be disturbed.
- Create a firm quitting time. You are more likely to enjoy both work and home if you can separate the two, says Lifehacker.
- Define your priorities. Mompreneur Network encourages setting priorities for both work and home.
- Don’t answer work e-mail or phone calls after-hours. Amanda Abella explains that letting the line between work and home blur can leads to unhappiness.
- Take time to figure out how quickly you will respond to e-mails or phone calls. Boston Wellness Coach advises setting clear boundaries.
- Get up early on the weekends too. While that may seem counterintuitive, it isn’t. Use the early weekend morning to get housework done so you can have fun with your family and feel like you have boundaries between work and home, says Projective.
- Make sure that you separate work time and home time physically. Hot Frog advises taking a walk when you are done with work for the day so that your body feels a separation.
- Talk to your family. The biggest thing you can do to set boundaries is to talk to your family about not bothering you while you are working, explains Paul Maplesden.
Dress Code for Working at Home
There’s a common misconception that everyone who works from home lounges around in pajamas all day, but many people have found it beneficial to get fully dressed as a signal the day is starting. Use these 10 tips for implementing a dress code while working from home.
- Don’t wear lounge clothes while working. Woman’s Work urges women to get dressed every morning before work so you sound perkier and are more productive.
- Get fully dressed. The Coffee Stained Writer explains that getting dressed all the way to her shoes makes her less likely to nap during the work day.
- Dressing in business attire helps ensure you’re prepared for any last minute meetings. Dressing so you are ready to take a meeting on a moment’s notice will help keep you in work mode, says Journo Advice.
- Dress up if you feel more productive. Already Pretty suggests making a dress code for yourself and deciding if you feel better when you dress up, dress down or somewhere in between.
- Find an in between style for working at home. Staying in your pajamas might make you feel and work like a slob, but dressing in a suit may be impractical. Find a happy medium from Our Little Apartment.
- Try wearing stylish yet comfortable clothes because you may leave the house. Wardrobe Oxygen urges work at home women to still get “dressed” for work, though maybe in a more relaxed manner than you would for an office.
- Add some fun to your work day by dressing up a little. XO Jane explains that you can have fun with your wardrobe even when working at home.
- People who dress up are often more successful. Excelle points out that if absolutely no one is going to see you then you can just be comfortable, but even if just one person sees you it’s important to make a professional impression.
- What you wear represents who you are. Yes and Yes has some upgraded comfy clothing ideas to share.
- Add an accessory to your outfit. My Year Without Clothes Shopping recommends dressing up casual clothes with a scarf or necklace.
To take a break or not to take a break? Here are 10 reasons that taking breaks during the day is a good thing, as long as those breaks don’t lead to procrastination.
- Take mini-breaks during your work day. According to Stillness Buddy, even a 30 second break every hour will make you more productive.
- A five minute break several times a day can reduce stress. The Centers for Disease Control explain that taking a five minute break can improve focus, reduce stress and help you reduce your cholesterol.
- Resting your eyes for a few minutes several times a day will ease eye strain. Singh Rahul talks about the many health benefits to taking periodic breaks during the day.
- Avoid burnout by taking your lunch away from your desk. SF Gate encourages workers to step away occasionally for a change of scenery.
- Stay efficient by taking an occasional break. Productivity 501 points out that some problems may benefit from letting your unconscious mind work while the conscious mind takes a break.
- Working all day without a break can lead to making mistakes. Fortune says that people who push too hard at their jobs don’t take time to recharge, which can lead to mistakes.
- Taking a lunch break can help you make better decisions. The Sydney Morning Herald explains that getting away from your desk helps you stay mentally sharp throughout the afternoon.
- Working longer hours doesn’t necessarily mean you will get more done. New York Times suggests working in 15 minute intense bursts instead of for hours at a time.
- Moving around can reduce spikes in blood sugar. Shine encourages people to go for a walk after eating to avoid blood sugar spikes, which can cause weight gain and diabetes.
- Taking lunch breaks can reduce sick days. According to the University of Toronto, employees who consistently work through lunch became ill more often than those that take breaks.
How to be Productive
It takes a certain type of person to be able to effectively work from home. To increase your productivity in your home office, use these 10 tips.
- Alter your mindset. Fox Business explains that some people don’t have the self-motivation to be productive in a non-office setting.
- Stay connected to people in your office. Business Insider points out that by staying in touch you can communicate your goals and intentions for the day.
- Check e-mail at set times. USA Today encourages those that work from home to avoid distractions from e-mail notifications by having set times to check e-mail.
- Be aware of the music you are listening to because it could affect your mood. Zen Habits advises you to listen to things that will put you in a positive frame of mind.
- Don’t waste time setting up your work space every day. MSN explains the benefits of keeping your work space set up versus breaking it down at the end of each day.
- Get rid of distractions. Technori points out the importance of focusing on your work and avoiding distractions.
- Break up your day. Manilla suggests taking a break in the middle of the day to exercise and get away from your desk.
- Get into a work routine. By maintaining a routine you can spend less time trying to figure out what to do next, says Work Awesome.
- Put up a ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign. It can be difficult to avoid getting sidetracked by family members when working from home, so Make Use Of suggests letting them know when you can’t be disturbed.
- Try a change of venue. Loop 21 advises sitting in a café or bookstore occasionally to increase your productivity.
You may get so wrapped up planning adventures, fun games and activities for the kids that you forget that the best way to be a great caregiver is to invest some time in taking care of yourself. Burning the candle at both ends – whether it’s to keep on top of school responsibilities if you are a caregiver in the process of finishing your education, taking care of your own kids or elderly family members when not on duty caring for your charges, or taking on extra babysitting sessions with other families to pump up your income – can lead to fatigue and put you in a vulnerable state where burnout or break downs loom.
Here are a few simple things you can do to keep yourself on track and feeling great:
This is no surprise, yet most of us feel like skipping a few hours here and there won’t hurt. “Pulling an all-nighter” might be some college students’ solution to last minute cram needs, but when your responsibilities include caring for someone else’s safety and security (and not just being able to stumble to class before crashing the afternoon away) this is not a great plan for success. Even in the short term, studies have shown that sleep debt increases emotional instability, anxiety and confusion, in addition to general sleepiness and motor skills impairment.
While some jobs might be less affected by a lack of sleep, we know that sleep deprivation leads to overreactions to frustration and outward expressions of negativity on others’ faces, decreased emotional intelligence and coping skills, a hindered ability to notice subtle discriminations of facial expressions on others, compromised decision-making and affected neural systems associated with risky decisions – all key things when it comes to caring for a child.
You might think you can bypass these ill effects by sneaking in power naps or adding up the hours between bouts up with a sick child or nighttime feedings. However, even withholding the deeper REM sleep achieved through a decent stretch of sleep for a single night interferes with the brain’s capacity to cope with emotional events that may occur during the following day. So respect your need for Zzzz’s and make good sleep a priority.
Much like sleep, eating can have a serious affect on your mood and energy levels. Although most people recognize the connection between healthy eating and physical fitness – another important aspect for a caregiver who needs the energy to chase after toddlers in the park or join in a game of backyard hoops with the kids – the effect on mood and emotional reaction can be even more direct and immediate.
Ditching the carbs might be good for that new pair of jeans, but when you do so you are also ditching the ability to produce feel-good-serotonin. Up your memory and optimism by staying fueled with Omega-3’s (if salmon’s not your thing, fortified peanut butters and granola bars are a good alternative). Skip the fatty options to avoid feeling both mentally and physically sluggish and keep pumping that iron to avoid lack of focus and attention (even vegetarians can stock up with a handful of dried fruits).
Don’t skimp on breakfast either – you’ve likely heard it’s the most important meal of the day and a nutritious breakfast sets the stage for how the rest of the day will flow. This is especially important for caregivers who might get caught up with the kids and not get a snack in before well into the day. Opt for thiamine rich cereal to amp up your activity level and pair it with a cup of skim milk that has mood-boosting whey protein.
An Ounce of Prevention
Thanks to the elbow patrol, these days you’ll see very few kids sneezing into their hands. However, while a greater awareness of health and the benefits of hand washing are being pushed by schools fighting off empty desks and illness outbreaks, the reality is that you will be spending your time with a small person who spends their time with other small persons and the odds of having the inevitable resulting germs, viruses and colds hugged onto you is fairly high.
Arm yourself with more than Kleenex and lozenges. Consider your preventative health, be it extra healthy eating with immunity boosting in mind, a flu shot or simply lowering stress to boost your ability to fight off illness. Bring the kids in on stress-busting fun by trying out a kid’s exercise tape together or even just going for a walk in the woods.Posted in Nanny Websites | Comments Off on How to Care for Yourself When You’re a Caregiver January 22, 2014
Whether you’ve decided a nanny is the best childcare option for your family, you’re a nanny looking to break into the field or you’re an experienced caregiver seeking your next placement, you’re going to need a nanny/family work agreement. A nanny/family work agreement protects everyone’s interests and ensures that all parties understand and are in agreement about the duties that are expected, pay, length of employment and benefits.
If handling contracts and paperwork is not your forte or you’re concerned about missing a key element that could cause problems down the line, consider these foolproof nanny work agreement websites to help you on your way:
This free site is geared toward nannies seeking employment. It not only offers a comprehensive work agreement to fill in, but also provides interview tips, potential second interview questions, etiquette advice during the hiring process, tax requirement info and a section on choosing an agency. The nanny duties are outlined within the sample contract and need only a checkmark, and termination (by either party) repercussions are addressed as well.
This nanny and family consultation site offers packages tailored to fit your nanny needs. The Hiring Package ($40, which includes a $5 discount) features: The Employment Agreement, Family Emergency Form, Medical Authorization, Social Media Agreement, Email/ Phone/Reference Questions, Sample Job Description and Interview Question Domains. An Endings Package ($30, which includes a $5 discount) for smooth transitions and a Complete Package ($120, which includes a $10 discount) are also available, as well as options to pick and choose the templates or samples at $5 each.
The International Nanny Association website offers The Family/Nanny agreement ($50), which is a tool nannies, agencies and families can use to outline the nanny’s job description, work schedule, pay, vacation schedule and benefits. It also offers agreements for Agency Use for their clients ($150).
This paper-free PDF-filler site allows users to upload documents and fill in their information on otherwise unwriteable forms, securely sign them using Digisign tech, and then send out the form out by email, fax or export. It also allows you to print your form for your records. This is ideal for long distance nanny relationships, allowing both parties to quickly take care of paperwork. The fee runs $19.99 per month (longer term options are discounted) for unlimited use, which is good for families on the search, and offers job seekers free access (i.e., nannies).
This legal advice site offers a free nanny work agreement that covers all the basics for both parties, along with a “Find a Lawyer” assistance program that connects customers with local lawyers for more in depth needs. Some questions can be answered for members by attorneys participating in a Q&A system, while pre-negotiated rates are available for more involved requirements.
This free one-stop-shop site offers both sample live-in and live-out nanny work agreements (which are specific in some terms and may need to be edited for general use), as well as links to applicable tax laws, federal labor laws and state household employment rules.
You can find the “A to Z Nanny Contract,” here, which was designed by a nanny for nannies and their employers. Options include a live-in or live-out full-time nanny work agreement ($39.95) that offers a downloadable guidebook and template and appendix sheets that walk you through the process of tailoring the contact to your specific needs (even some you might not have thought of). The second option is to have a 15-30 minute phone call with the site founder, who will then do the work for you and deliver a personalized contract within 48 hours ($129.95). In the future, part-time, summer and shared nanny agreements will be available. The product offers a 30 day money back guarantee.
This site offers a Basic Package that includes a Nanny Contract ($19.95) in both Word and PDF formats, a User Guide and Nanny Starter Kit, or a Deluxe Package ($29.95) that includes the Basic Package plus a Background Check Form, Medical Consent Form, Termination Letters, First Day Checklist, Recordkeeping Sheet and Nanny Starter Kit. Both offer 30 day money back guarantees.Posted in Nanny Websites | Comments Off on Great Sites for Sample Nanny Work Agreements December 15, 2013
Part of providing high quality childcare is meeting the unique needs of the children in your care. Nannies are responsible not only for meeting the children’s physical needs, but also their emotional, social and educational needs. While every day provides an opportunity for learning, professional nannies often develop their own curriculum to incorporate into the children’s day. If you’re looking to boost the learning moments in your charge’s day, check out these resourceful blogs for great curriculum ideas.
As children grow and develop, nannies can help foster both social and emotional growth. Learning how to support a child’s social and emotional growth and development will help you understand child behavior and build strong attachments with the children in your care. Check out these blogs to learn how to support social and emotional growth and development.
- Zero to Three—This site provides insight for caregivers on handling anger in charges and guiding the child on how to show anger in a healthy way.
- PBS—Learn ways to identify social and emotional growth in a child by being aware of developmental milestones. This site covers children from infant to five years of age.
- My Health—Read about the different stages of development for infants on this site and learn what you can do to encourage growth.
- CDE—The California Department of Education explains infant and toddler development here, helping you learn why interactions with adults are so important to growth.
- Seven Counties Services—Read all about how an infant forms attachments to her caregiver and how anxiety levels change as the infant gets older.
- Kamloops Children’s Therapy—This site examines infant stages of development, as well as red flags that caregivers should be aware of.
- Challenging Behavior—This paper focuses on the importance of the parent and primary caregiver in the lives of children and the development of infants and toddlers that may be at risk for disabilities.
- Child Development Institute—Find out what the eight stages of development are from psychiatrist Erik Erikson.
- Kidspot—You’ll learn more about the eight stages of development here, as well as how being aware of emotional growth is just as important as watching for physical growth.
- Everyday Family—Emotional growth continues at a rapid pace through the toddler years, and those milestones are explored in this article.
Supporting language development is a key component to providing great care. From modeling appropriate language to identifying potential delays, nannies should be in the know when it comes to understanding and supporting language development. Check out these blogs for helpful information.
- NIDCD—The National Institute on Deafness and Other Common Disorders explains how language development can be delayed in a child who cannot hear properly. Being aware of where a child should be developmentally will help alert you to a problem if there is one.
- Parenting Literacy—Find out what parents and caregivers need to know when it comes to the language development of children in their care.
- Mayo Clinic—Learn what the speech milestones are for infants through children one year of age from the experts at the Mayo Clinic.
- Healthy Children—According to this article, it’s important to speak to your toddler frequently to help develop language skills.
- What to Expect—Toddlers learn rapidly, but their language skills really take off around 18 months. If the child isn’t speaking with at least a small vocabulary by 18 months, he should be evaluated by a physician for possible speech delays.
- Baby Center—If certain developmental milestones are not being met when it comes to speech, it may mean the child is speech delayed and in need of additional help from a speech professional.
- Parents—Read through this question and answer site to find the answers to many commonly asked questions about language development.
- Get Ready to Read—Language skills incorporate both speaking and listening. Read this article to see what listening skills and speaking skills a preschooler should possess.
- Education—It’s common for three-year-olds to have a vocabulary of about 1000 words, and you should be able to understand most of what he says.
- Colorin’ Colorado—Learn the classroom strategies utilized at this school to help preschoolers with their language and literacy skills.
Incorporate basic math concepts into your charge’s day by learning through play. From creating patterns to sorting objects, these blogs have some great ideas for introducing beginner’s math.
- NAEYC—The National Association for the Education of Young Children discusses how young children notice mathematical aspects of their environment, such as patterns, balance and sharing a snack evenly with a sibling.
- Sites Norwood K12—Examine how preschoolers progress through their mathematical development from ages four to six and learn how you can help that development.
- School Sparks—Learn how children progress from learning to count to number recognition to pattern recognition in this article.
- Scholastic—Young children learn best through play, and this article explains how children can learn math through play by sorting, counting, creating patterns and more.
- Math—It’s important that kids start their math development early so that a positive attitude towards math can be formed. Learn math activities you can do with toddlers from this site.
- Chateau Meddybemps—Find creative ways to incorporate math into everyday play situations with the help of this post.
- Larry Cuban—While teaching math at the preschool level is not recommended by the author of this article, he does recommend play that incorporates math concepts, such as children getting the right number of pencils so that everyone in class can have one.
- Everyday Life—Examine different activities you can do with an older infant that will teach him about early math concepts, such as figuring out that an item is missing from the table.
- Math at Play—Infants, toddlers and preschoolers learn math differently, and this site provides various worksheets and activities that you can do with the kids in your care.
- Nature—Read this fascinating article about a study performed at Duke University where infants were tested and it was found that a prediction could be made about how well that child would do on tests three years into the future.
Kids are inherently curious, which makes them natural scientists, so when you provide hands-on learning experiences children tend to be eager to engage in learning. Check out these blogs for creative ways to introduce science to young students.
- U Toledo—This article considers young children natural scientists due to their inquisitive nature. Learn how you can support science development.
- Headstart—Explore what it takes to start teaching science to an infant with the help of this site.
- Early Childhood News—Read about what scientific goals you should have for a toddler in your care and how to help him explore his world.
- Project 2061—The NSES (National Science Education Standards) has announced that all children can learn science, but that learning needs to start early. Suggestions are made in this article about how you can encourage that learning.
- ECRP—The Early Childhood Research and Practice explains what science is and why children have a natural ability to learn it. Read examples of how to promote scientific learning at a young age.
- High Scope—If you’ve ever watched an infant pick up something and put it in his mouth, you have witnessed a natural scientist. That infant is testing the taste and feel of that object. Explore this site to learn what you can do to encourage scientific learning in preschoolers.
- ECAP—Learn about the Science Start Curriculum, which is an early childhood curriculum that can be used to facilitate scientific learning.
- FLMNH—The Florida Museum of Natural History has created MESS (Marvelous Explorations through Science and Stories) to help children develop in all areas using scientific experiments.
- Shanker Institute—Find a list of skills that a preschooler can accomplish in science and learn ways that you can teach those skills.
- My Teaching Partner—Activities are explained here, as well as other scientific curriculum for science.
Help children learn about themselves and others by learning about different cultures. Embrace diversity and encourage cultural experiences as you introduce a child to his world. Read more about how to teach cultural studies on these 10 websites.
- Noble World Montessori—Questions such as “Where do we come from?” and “Why do we tell stories?” are explored at the toddler level on this site.
- ANKN—The Alaska Native Knowledge Network has created curriculum that explains the culture of Alaska to promote knowledge and awareness in future generations.
- Stay at Home Moms—This post explains how to create a passport for the child and engage in learning opportunities about various areas in the world.
- Teaching Strategies—By partnering with family, the toddler and preschooler can hear stories about her family history and learn who she is and where she comes from.
- Coedu—Puzzles and games can be used to teach a child about different cultures, as well as improve her understanding of those cultures.
- Bright Hub Education—Explore the world with your preschooler by creating different cultural themes for her to investigate.
- Kon—The names of books depicting other cultures are listed here, as well as other ways to teach your student about different cultures.
- Childcare Exchange—Children learn through experiences, and can learn cultural differences in a childcare provider that speaks a different language.
- Teacher Link—Find complete lesson plans on how to teach cultural studies to children of various ages at a level they can understand.
- SDE—Read about how you can engage your student in cultural studies and how you can build from a preschool level when teaching a student about different cultures.
Encourage children to create and explore their artistic sides by spending time embracing the visual arts. From playing with dough to painting and coloring, you can encourage children to create their own masterpieces. These blogs explain how.
- Kinder Art—Check out the free lesson plans for all ages on this site. You can start by mixing colors and making 3D letters.
- I Am an Artist—Lessons are broken up by different crafting mediums, like clay, paint, fabric and more on this site.
- PDST—According to this post, art includes both creating it and visually responding to it.
- Voices—Take a look at the lesson plans included for infants and toddlers on this site. Using simple pictures and a single color crayon is an effective way to start exploring colors with the young artist.
- Smith—From infant finger painting to preschool drawings, many different suggestions are made on this site.
- Nova—You can find a sample curriculum for various subjects such as art for infants and toddlers on this site.
- The Artful Parent—There are over 500 different art projects listed on this site, making it a great resource for parents and caregivers.
- The Freckled Homeschooler—Art projects are broken down by different units in these lesson plans.
- No Time for Flash Cards—You can use this list of 15 fine art projects as part of your preschool curriculum.
- Jump Start—Find several art projects here that are appropriate for preschoolers to help them learn about color, texture and art.
Music is said to be a universal language. By exploring music together you and your charge can learn how different cultures have different musical styles and often use different instruments. From singing together to making instruments, there’s a lot you can do to incorporate music into your day.
- Kids’ Music Round—Find developmentally appropriate music curriculum on this site that makes music fun.
- Gia Publications—You can order age appropriate music CD’s and other music curriculum on this site.
- Feierabend Music—Dr. Feierabend, the founder of FAME (Foundation for Art and Music in Education), is thought to be one of the foremost authorities in music. He describes how you can start with an infant and let him listen to music to help him understand what music is over time. The instruction continues as the child gets older.
- Fun Family Education—Many music-based crafts are listed on this site, as well as various movement activities that you can use with your toddler.
- Preschool Music Lesson Plans—Here you’ll find toddler games that may bring a cranky toddler out of his bad mood.
- Fun Music Company—Lesson plans to entice toddlers to get into music are described on this site. Each lesson includes an introductory song to get the toddler excited.
- Preschool Express—This site features songs and musical activities that you can play from the site to energize and involve the toddlers in doing movement with music.
- Modern Mom—Explore lesson plan suggestions and ideas about including music in and around your other lesson plans.
- Confessions of a Homeschooler—You can buy this curriculum or you can put together a lesson plan that incorporates composers and music on your own.
- Roger Day—An explanation of where kids are developmentally when it comes to music can be found on this site, as well as examples of what you can encourage the preschooler to do.
Encourage the use of large muscle groups by dancing, climbing and being physically active. From dancing to music to going through a nanny-made obstacle course, kids need to spend time being active each day.
- The Magic of Play—Developmentally, toddlers are able to jump, run, skip and roll, and this article explains how to incorporate movement in a toddler’s day.
- Early Learning Activities—This document gives examples of games and other activities that involve movements that are developmentally possible for toddlers.
- Live Strong—This site recommends that you concentrate on large muscle type movements with toddlers, like running and playing follow the leader.
- EEC—Read through the list of developmental abilities for infants and learn which movements you can do with an infant, like peek-a-boo, pat-a-cake and this little piggy.
- Delmar Learning—Find a list with detailed explanations of infant and toddler activities here.
- Hap Palmer—Teaching the whole child is a goal encouraged by the author of this article, and an idea of how to incorporate movement throughout the day is explained.
- Teacher Quick Source—Several movements that are accompanied by music are explained on this site and can be used as part of your curriculum.
- Southern Early Childhood—Learn about the benefits of movement and find out what movements are appropriate for toddlers and preschoolers based on their development.
- Gryphon House—If you are looking for music and movement activities, you can find many free downloads on this site, as well as craft ideas by age.
- Hub Pages—Get some ideas for music and movement that you can do without buying anything special.
Daily Lives/Self Care
Never do for a child what he can do for himself. Young children can do more than they are often given credit for, which is where your teaching can really help. These sites share ideas to help you with teaching and supporting self-care.
- Positive Parenting Connection—Take a look at this long list of self-care items that kids can do from crawlers on up.
- Sandbox Learning—Make learning self-care skills fun by using the tips found on this site.
- Extension—Encourage and teach children to take care of some of their own needs, like brushing their teeth and washing their hands.
- CSEFEL—Read about what tasks children should be able to do at what age so that you will know which ones you can help them learn how to do on their own.
- Therapy Street for Kids—Kids can often do more than adults think, and it’s just a matter of training them to do some self-care things on their own.
- Presence Parenting—Making children take care of their own needs can lead to resentment and uncooperative kids, but making the task fun may get the job done.
- High Reach—Start with the kids wherever they are in the learning curve and go from there when teaching life skills. Higher level skills like tying shoes can be taught using a learning aid like a lacing game.
- Family Connect—Learn methods to make self-care tasks simpler for young children, such as using a pump tooth paste dispenser instead of a tube.
- The Bump—Many times toddlers and preschoolers want to be self-sufficient, but you may still need to model skills so that they can learn them.
- Super Duper Inc—Self-feeding is a task that children learn early in their development, and it can be encouraged by the caregiver allowing them to feed themselves, even if it means they get messy.
Need a little more guidance and support for planning your curriculum? These sites will provides lists of books that you can check out from the library, order online or buy in the book store to help make planning your curriculum a little easier.
- Pearson Higher Education—Read about e-text books and how the addition of videos in the text book can help children learn.
- Google Books—Check out these books on early childhood curriculum.
- Brightly Beaming Resources—This list of books is age appropriate for three-year-olds.
- Allen County Public Library—Take a look at the list of early childhood curriculum books on this list that may be available at your local library or book store.
- Amazon—Enjoy browsing through this list of early childhood books for classrooms.
- Goodreads—These books are popular choices from other Goodreads members that are interested in early childhood development.
- In Lieu of Preschool—Advice about curriculum and many books to use along with preschool curriculum are included in this post.
- Homeschool Curriculum—Look through this list of curriculum that you can use to teach developmentally appropriate skills to your charge.
- MH Professional—This site provides a list of books and products to create early childhood curriculum.
- Textbooks—Glance through this list of textbooks to see if any of them fit how you want to teach the children in your care.
- Regarding Nannies Created by nannies as the ultimate resource for those entering the biz, this well-established blog is the perfect source of up-to-date information for all nannies, regardless of their career level.
- INA Blog The official blog of the International Nannies Association offers links to nanny resources, a salary and benefits survey, a monthly newsletter and a job board, and is a must-have link to bookmark in your browser.
- Nanny Transitions If you are a nanny in flux, whether you’re leaving a career or shifting within the general field, this blog can offer support and advice to help make the transition a smooth one.
- CincyNanny Newly relocated back to the CincyNanny website, this blog offers creative tips, advice and resources on how to be the best you can be with your charges.
- I Saw Your Nanny. If the answer to “I spy with my little eye” is a nanny or parent-boss misbehaving (or in far rarer cases, going above and beyond), this site would have been a fave. It’s no longer active, but the past years of sightings and funny horror stories make it an entertaining read for gossip girls.
- GTM Payroll Services The household tax and payroll experts at GTM Payroll Services use their blog and video messages to address tough tax questions for household employees.
- The Nanny Time Bomb This site is an industry blog courtesy of NannyX, an “author, artist, investigator, and childcare advocate” who works toward safety in the workplace and offers daily themed posts.
- How to Be the Best Nanny Blog This blog aims to help readers do exactly what it says – be the best nanny possible – and offers ideas for creative projects and games to try, with references to studies on how to connect with your charges.
- Nanny News Network Informative postings and links shared to keep you in touch with current news and commentary related to the nanny world make this a clickworthy spot to stop.
- Car Seat Nanny Know your rear-seat’er from your old-enough-for-the-front’er? Booster your vehicle know-how by perusing the former files of Car Seat Nanny. Her nanny experience and training as a Certified Passenger Safety Technician kept kids safe on the road and remains a valuable resource.
- Breedlove & Associates These nanny tax and payroll experts keep nannies and their potential employers up to speed with the current rules and regulations involving legal hiring and payment of nannies.
- Family Helpers The Family Helpers blog features safety tips, career advice and insight into the nanny industry in the NYC/Westchester region and beyond.
- Nanny Groups Although posts might be sporadic, Nanny Groups offers a list of nanny support groups across the country that can come in handy should you find yourself in need of some extra support.
- Nurturing Nannies This blog might be directed at those working as or looking to hire nannies across the pond, but many of the resources and reference materials are universal.
- NannyJobs.org This nanny job board and info resource for nannies in the field gives tips on securing a position and performing your job in the most efficient and successful way possible.
- eNannySource.com A nanny agency website with thousands of profiles, this site offers a blog with interviews, expert tips and clever takes on current news stories relevant to the nanny community.
- 4Nannies.com The 4Nannies.com blog’s draw is the wealth of posts about handling specific needs in the household, including dealing with kids of all ages, dietary restrictions and much more. You’ll also find info for new nannies on their job search options and practical matters like negotiating pay or completing a written work agreement here.
- Nannypalooza The famed nanny event not only has a website, but also a blog. Posts about the nanny community founded by Sue Downey offer insight and advice born from her 20+ years of experience.
- 4NannyTaxes You’ll find info, resources and tips on all things related to household and nanny taxes or payroll on this site, with updates and current developments that affect the nanny/employer business relationship.
- HireaNanny.com HireaNanny offers many helpful articles that contain important info on legal requirements for nanny employment relationships.
- GoNannies.com Expert insight from seasoned nannies and childcare professionals provide real life advice for today’s professional nanny and nanny employer.
- NannyAgency.net Readers will find information on how to compare nanny agencies and choose the right childcare option using tips from those who have been there.
- NannyJobs.net Not only does this blog strive to help nannies find the right position, but it also offers resources to help them keep that position once they land it.
- NannyPro.com The industry insiders over here engage readers by sharing info on raising healthy kids, providing best practices for nannies and sharing how to bring the right professional into your home to help care for your kids.
- SummerNanny.com The summer nanny is a different entity than the year-round one, and so is this blog that hosts a collection of information about summer activities and tips on hiring help for the summer months. You’ll also find general childcare advice.
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